Where do you find single 40 somethings?

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Registered: 10-31-2007
Where do you find single 40 somethings?
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Wed, 10-31-2007 - 2:37pm

Hi.


How many of you are 40 something out there?


I'm just curious if you don't do clubs and your tired of internet dating how do you meet people IRL?


I would figure the bookstore would be a good place for like minded people.


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Registered: 02-15-2005
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 2:43pm

I'm 42...


I'm very active in the VFW and other veteran's causes, show horses (OK, most of the men are gay, but there is the occasional single dad) go to polo matches (polo players are a blast), foxhunt, and sometimes play volleyball - although I'm determined to make the time to join a league this winter.


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Wed, 10-31-2007 - 2:45pm

That's a good question--I'm 49 and I've tried just about every sort of venue, club, activities

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Registered: 10-31-2007
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 4:40pm

Hi.


Really?

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Wed, 10-31-2007 - 4:53pm

No, I haven't had "nothing" but luck with OLD ;-), but

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 5:28pm
I am 32, but I have seen a lot of single 40-somethings at the wine tasting groups I attend. You can often find groups like that on Meetup, or just do an Internet search for your area.

I know there are also social groups out there that target different age groups. You might try a search for "30s 40s" or "40s 50s" and see what comes up.

AJ, enjoying life with C.