Which is worse? To be . . .
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Which is worse? To be . . .
| Wed, 11-28-2007 - 7:18pm |
Which is worse? To be . . .
- Blissfully ignorant
- Painfully aware
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| Wed, 11-28-2007 - 7:18pm |
I've actually thought about this quite a bit.
Smile,
Deirdre
For this exact reason, I'd have to go with blissfully ignorant. I've been cheated on too and before I knew, I was pretty daggone happy too. It was in finding out (and becoming painfully aware) that I become miserable and fell into a huge depression. Sure, I needed to know, but knowing sometimes hurts much worst.
For me, it wasn't the ignorance that hurt, it was finding out that almost killed me. I could have lived without that.
Well the problem wasn't that I was daggone happy, but I thought I was going crazy because I knew something was wrong, but I kept getting told nothing was wrong, and everyone was telling me everything was fine. So everyone was just lying.
I can live with pain, I can survive pain, I bend I do not break. But knowing that all those people conspired and didn't have enough respect for me who claimed to be my friends to tell me. That's just not cool.
Smile,
Deirdre
Oh I see. And that is much wose. I had no idea and neither did any of my friends or family. We all thought I had a great boyfriend. I had one married friend that envied my relationship.
We were all fooled.