Why do you think you are single?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
Why do you think you are single?
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Sat, 03-03-2012 - 7:42pm

The purpose of this thread is not to insult anyone.

I have been doing some soul searching and trying to take a lesson or two

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Registered: 01-24-2011
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 8:09am
I don't think I have a bad boy fixation, but I am attracted to intelligent guys. Does that make sense?

Let me give you an example of a guy that is interested in me but I am not interested in him. He blows his horn too much and it is a big turn off for me. I like guys that are confident in his own skin and does not need to sell himself.

I think the main reason is that I don't feel any chemistry with them.

All my exes are the ones who pursued me from the start. It takes me a while to get interested.
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Registered: 09-12-2005
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 9:11am
misslynn76 wrote:

Let me give you an example of a guy that is interested in me but I am not interested in him. He blows his horn too much and it is a big turn off for me. I like guys that are confident in his own skin and does not need to sell himself.

I think the main reason is that I don't feel any chemistry with them.


It turns me off too. Real chemistry can be felt when people are themselves...

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 11:03am
Sireanita, how are you doing now?

Still pining for the cuban?

I hope you are taking care of yourself.
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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 12:25pm

Yes that makes good sense!

chaika

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2005
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 12:38pm
misslynn76 wrote:
Sireanita, how are you doing now?

Still pining for the cuban?

I hope you are taking care of yourself.

I'm doing pretty well now, thanks. I'm sorry, I'm not sure what "pinning" means. He's writing to me from there....

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 9:20pm

ROFL!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 9:25pm

I'm sure it's impossible to "diagnose" other people from these cryptic online statements we all make.

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Registered: 04-17-2008
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 10:00pm
Marina90292 wrote:

Honestly, xxxs, I don't know how likely the FWB concept really is - for anyone, not just you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2008
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 10:01pm

So true, Marina!

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Tue, 03-06-2012 - 10:32pm

Of course we have to be mentally,emotionally,physically ready to meet whenever a prospect comes by.

chaika