Why is he so weird!?

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Registered: 09-07-2004
Why is he so weird!?
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Fri, 03-24-2006 - 12:39am

Hello-

Okay here is the situation. I went on a date last night with "Greg", whom I have know since high school and dated a few times. Anyways, the date was pretty successful in the beginning, we went out to eat and then went to a movie. This is when it got weird. He had marijuana and we thought it would be fun to see the movie stoned. Once stoned, everything got all awkward and uncomfortable. We found nothing to talk about, being serious was hard to do. Plus he wasn't being very talkative. So the awkward long silences continued until the movie started.

Near the end of the movie he finally made some sort of physical contact. He held my hand, which was nice. Then he drove me home, where I tried to make convo about the movie. The most he would say is I dunno et cetera. At this point I was wishing we hadn't smoked. Finally we got to my house and he walked me to my door only to awkwardly give me a hug and say for me to call him. I replied with no you call me.

Today I talked to him on the internet (instant messenger) where he asked me what I am doing later. He made plans to hang out after he got done with working out. Well two and half hours later at 9:00pm he finally called. At this point I was pretty annoyed that he waited so long, but I played it cool and told him that I am gonna go to bed, and it is too bad he didn't call me earlier. He said,"Oh yeah well I had to work out and some stuff...(incoherent words from his mumbling)...tomorrow my family is coming to visit and on Saturday i am going to Tahoe."

Josh goes to school pretty far from where I live, so his visit here is only till Sunday. Yesterday he was asking me what I am doing on Friday, which made it seem like he wanted to hang out. Plus I asked him what he was gonna do while he is down here, and all he said was just hang out. Anyways, he went onto say he will come down for some weekends. By at this point I was really confused with what just happened and I ended the conversation by saying, "Well I guess I'll see ya when I see ya, take care."

I still don't understand what made him do this. We only went on one date, no kissing, got a little weird, but obviously he still wanted to hang out with me. Then he pulls this. My friend thinks since I said I was too tired to hang out, he wanted to seem cool so he pretended he had things to do these next few days. Whatever, I guess he missed out.

Any suggestions or what you think is going here would be sooooooo much appreciated. Thank you all!!

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Fri, 03-24-2006 - 6:48am

The answer is the same as it was here:


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlsinglelovi&msg=6362.1


He's not that great of a catch and not that interested.