Why is it OK for women Continued...

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Registered: 12-07-2006
Why is it OK for women Continued...
Mon, 06-04-2007 - 3:40pm

In response to the guy who responded but who's post was deleted, I try finding other qualities to make myself more attractive. I try to be amiable and agreeable when talking to a girl, but that hasn't worked. I want to be more charming and witty and charismatic when talking to girls, but for some reason, many of the women here refuse to say how.

I can't use the advice on the love section of the site because it's designed for women to attract men. Besides, playing "hard to get" is useless if no girl is trying to get me. "How to tell when someone wants to kiss you" is useless when no one wants you.

Look, I don't know if you all remember, but a while back, a WOMAN named confuseduk said that over the summer, I should tell girls I'm hurt because I just got out of a really long relationship, garner their sympathy, sleep with them, then dump them to solidify my reputation as a "heart breaker." And she wasn't being sarcastic. She said so herself that breaking a young girl's heart is far from the worst thing from the world.

I don't understand why more of you can't give me more information along those lines?