Why OH Why!!!!!

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Registered: 05-19-2003
Why OH Why!!!!!
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Thu, 06-22-2006 - 10:36am

Why is it that when a guy is pursuing you and you finally start showing interest back, they suddenly lose interest?

Why is it that a guy will ask to see you/hang out/get to get together, yet soon as you give them the ok/your available days/ask them out, they don't return your message?

Why do guys lose interest after sex?

Why do guys lose interest within 2-3 months?

Why are guys not interested in dating these days?

Why don't many men take much interest in a woman's mind or feelings?

Why don't most guys feel anything ever?

Why don't most guys care?

Why are so many guys so emotionally voidant?

Why can't I attract a guy that cares (instead of guys that pretend to care then reveal that they really don't).

Why is it that a man can have such a great relationship with his mom and sisters, yet not have any respect or courteous to every other woman in the world?

Why are so many guys content with emotion-less sex?

I dont't expect answers and I'm of course making huge, sweeping generalizations here. I just needed to get that off my chest. Cause here I am after initiating messages with 2 so-called interested guys 3 days ago and no response from either. I'll bet both will coming calling late on Friday to see what I'm up to and that will be too daggone late.

Why! Why! Why!

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Registered: 06-19-2006
In reply to: cl214
Fri, 06-23-2006 - 12:47pm

I think we will find that every single person, regardless of gender, is going to have difficulties with dating. I personally don't think it is any easier for men. If I was expected to approach the opposite sex all the time, in risk of being rejected in front of all my friends, I would feel completely dejected.

I think dating is hard, until you find that right person. Until then, we're just competing with "who's got it worse". I just think that we each have it bad, but the experiences are different. Women do get used for sex a lot and every non-virgin female out there will tell you, it sucks. But we need to learn and grow from our experiences not to do it again and try a different approach. Guys, I am sure you find that some girls just want sex. Maybe they think that ALL guys want sex and not just a relationship. My point is here, that we each have it bad. Just different bad.

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Registered: 06-19-2006
In reply to: cl214
Fri, 06-23-2006 - 12:49pm
BTW, my last message was to everyone who commented on this thread, not shy...
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Registered: 06-02-2005
In reply to: cl214
Fri, 06-23-2006 - 12:55pm
Well said kcol68.

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