Women and flirting

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Registered: 04-13-2006
Women and flirting
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Sun, 04-23-2006 - 10:39pm

So theres a thread on here about how a lot of you women shut down or become intensely shy when you see a guy you like or are attracted to and dont know how to act...

If I remember correctly someone wrote about how they would aviod their crush in a social setting with other people...another one said that she smiles and then doesnt do anything after that.

I am confused...

A lot of girls smile at me and a lot of girls aviod me so should I pursue those ones?
I am being sarcastic but I do have a genuine question to the females here...

How do I pick up on when a woman likes me so I can approach her or continue to talk to her or try to flirt or whatever. I would just like to know so I dont make a fool out of myself like I seem to do sometimes with women.

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Registered: 11-21-2005
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 3:19pm
Okay, email them to me at stacey22478@hotmail.com.
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Registered: 11-01-2005
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 3:22pm
OK

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Registered: 04-13-2006
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 7:56pm
ok I sent you one
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Registered: 04-13-2006
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 8:24pm

OK I dont think Im going to call this girl(I am not afraid of any hammer lol).

Heres my reasons:
1. I do not think she honestly wants to see me, she is probably some mean hot girl playing a joke
2. I am not good enough for her
3. Theres no way I am her type
4. I am crazy as anyone who reads this might agree lol
5. I just cant...I am gutless

So there you have it

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 8:41pm

Well, at least you admit you're gutless...that's something ;-).

Is that how you want to go through life, though? Please note: having low self-esteem and being someone who would benefit from counseling does NOT equal "crazy".

Sheri

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Registered: 03-28-2005
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 9:57pm

How can you know if you are good enough for her or her type if you haven't even talked to the girl? Give her a call, chat for a bit and then see where it goes. I'm assuming she's at least somewhat interested if she bothered to get your number and to call it - at least call her back!

Trina

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Registered: 04-13-2006
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 10:28pm

Alright I will call her...

I have to figure out what me and my friends are doing this weekend before I do because she said she wanted to get with friends and hang out so I have to give my buddies a call and see what is going on this weekend. And then...I will call her.

Im so freakin nervous...

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 11:12pm

Forward to me, please!

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Registered: 11-21-2005
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 12:21am
Thank you, but I'm getting a message that the "file I am trying to access is no longer accessible."
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Registered: 04-13-2006
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 2:17am

Sorry, I tried it again. I hope it works this time although I dont know why it didnt the first time.

And don't try to humor me with your reactions, as crazy as I act I can take criticism just fine

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