Women and flirting

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Registered: 04-13-2006
Women and flirting
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Sun, 04-23-2006 - 10:39pm

So theres a thread on here about how a lot of you women shut down or become intensely shy when you see a guy you like or are attracted to and dont know how to act...

If I remember correctly someone wrote about how they would aviod their crush in a social setting with other people...another one said that she smiles and then doesnt do anything after that.

I am confused...

A lot of girls smile at me and a lot of girls aviod me so should I pursue those ones?
I am being sarcastic but I do have a genuine question to the females here...

How do I pick up on when a woman likes me so I can approach her or continue to talk to her or try to flirt or whatever. I would just like to know so I dont make a fool out of myself like I seem to do sometimes with women.

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Registered: 03-28-2005
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 9:44am

Good, you should call, figure out something quick though b/c the weekend is approaching and she may be making her own plans soon. Don't worry about your nerves, she was probably just as nervous calling you and will be again when you call her back. I know I am nervous talking to a guy on the phone the first few conversations.

Good Luck!!

Trina

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Registered: 11-21-2005
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 10:50am
I wrote back to you on the email but the hotmail interface was giving me a hard time so I don't know if it went through...but dude, you've gotta stop picking yourself apart!
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Registered: 04-13-2006
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 1:38pm

I changed my mind....

I dont want to call her, to hell with it.

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Registered: 12-27-2004
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 1:53pm

I changed my mind....

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Huh? Why?

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 2:11pm

Well its up to you but I think you might miss out on something. From what it sounds in your post, she sounds interested. Looking at you at the party, asking your buddies for your number and then calling. Trust me, even though I'm not afraid to do that kind of stuff, I have to be interested in order to do it that way.

I don't think its all a big joke to her. I really do think she might be interested.

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Registered: 11-01-2005
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 3:07pm

The worst thing that can happen is that you have a slightly awkward conversation.

The best? That, yes, she actually might like you and accept a date with you. You, at the very least, get to tell your buddies you went out with a "perfect 10" and she might actually still like you and go out with you again.

You really have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Show her some respect that she had the courage to call you first and please call her. Don't talk yourself out of this.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Registered: 04-13-2006
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 4:40pm
I told you not to humor me, but thanks.
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Registered: 11-21-2005
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 4:55pm
Why do you assume I'm just "humoring" you?
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Registered: 04-21-2003
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 6:02pm

Sorry, I just have to stick my two cents here...

He should stop being encouraged to call her, because as he openly admitted to being gutless and has demonstrated throughout this thread that he has low self-esteem and very indecisive. We should spare the poor hot girl from being in a potential rollercoaster relationship.

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Registered: 04-13-2006
Wed, 04-26-2006 - 11:43pm

Well I did call her tonight.

I figured what the hell and went for it. Long story short we decided to get together with our friends and hang out Friday night at a bar we both go to.
Now Im going to be a mess worrying about Friday night and what Im going to do when we actually meet.
As much as I wish I could let this all go, she was just too gorgeous to ignore and I am weak so I have to give it a shot even if I think something is a little weird about all of this.

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