Women and flirting

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2006
Women and flirting
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Sun, 04-23-2006 - 10:39pm

So theres a thread on here about how a lot of you women shut down or become intensely shy when you see a guy you like or are attracted to and dont know how to act...

If I remember correctly someone wrote about how they would aviod their crush in a social setting with other people...another one said that she smiles and then doesnt do anything after that.

I am confused...

A lot of girls smile at me and a lot of girls aviod me so should I pursue those ones?
I am being sarcastic but I do have a genuine question to the females here...

How do I pick up on when a woman likes me so I can approach her or continue to talk to her or try to flirt or whatever. I would just like to know so I dont make a fool out of myself like I seem to do sometimes with women.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2005
Sat, 05-13-2006 - 3:37pm

well, if i were to look over at you, smile and look away at least 3 times ....come on over.

if i were to look over at you, smile and move to another part of the bar/club...come on over.

The worse that can happen is i would tell you to get lost if i was not interested.

sometimes a woman uses these tactics to see if the guy is into her. IF you do not persue her after she moves to a different location in the room you could have missed out of a good match.

Ya won't know unless you approach period. just remember NO does mean NO. Maybe means " I'll take ya up on a test drive(non-sexual) and see where things go from here", and a phone number means " your on her hook". Just follow the line and pray it does not break.

Good luck.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2005
Sat, 05-13-2006 - 4:49pm
I know, I've been under a lot of stress (financial difficulties).
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2006
Mon, 05-15-2006 - 1:55am
I am sorry to hear that stacey. I was just wondering why I hadnt seen anything on here from you in a while, missed ya. Anyway I hope everything works out for you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2005
Mon, 05-15-2006 - 11:46am
Thank you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2006
Tue, 06-20-2006 - 1:52pm
Wow I forgot all about this thread I started and this girl...I basically ended up cutting things off with this girl because I couldnt get over the fact that there is no way I measured up to her ex. I can overcome insecruities only to a certain extent.

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