Women Popping the BIG Question???

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Registered: 05-06-2007
Women Popping the BIG Question???
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Wed, 12-26-2007 - 4:15pm

Ok,

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Registered: 10-06-2006
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 12:01pm
A women dreams her whole life about how she will be asked to be married.
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Registered: 07-20-2006
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 12:51pm

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Registered: 01-03-2008
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 1:52pm
It depends on your relationship. I am an independent woman, and my boyfriend LOVED it that I proposed! We have been happily married for almost 5 years now! I did not expect a ring. But he surprised me with an heirloom diamond the next week. It could not have been more perfect. (I did give him an engraved compass in a wooden box when I proposed, it's prettier than I can describe) Follow your heart.... It may not work for everyone, but we have a very balanced relationship, we take good care of each other. I have since heard of 2 or 3 other ladies that did the same as me, and similiar results, happy!
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Registered: 12-11-2007
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 2:16pm

My ex-boyfriend had a girlfriend while he dated me (yes, he is a scumball).

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Registered: 12-20-2007
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 2:53pm

Hello


Personally I wouldn't do it, but if you feel in your heart that this is something that you want to do, and you're ready for whatever outcome this will bring the two of you, I say go for it.


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Registered: 01-02-2008
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 4:47pm

No, don't ask him to marry you.

Jen

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Registered: 10-13-2005
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 4:48pm

OUCH! That was painful even to read that last comment!


To the woman that posted this question - listen, you are going to get mixed reviews on such a question. I did suggest earlier to read that book Why Men Marry Bitches.. Which I still think you should.. but As I reviewed some of the comments - some with happy relationships with the guy they proposed to

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Registered: 01-03-2008
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 5:11pm

I agree with these posts.

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Registered: 01-03-2008
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 5:36pm

Hi , I'm from England and don't know if you have the same tradition in US, but every leap year( which 2008 is)

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Registered: 01-03-2008
Thu, 01-03-2008 - 6:05pm

I asked my soon-to-be to marry me - and he definitely said yes.