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Registered: 10-09-2007
Women without a good man, this is 4 U
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 9:17pm

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Registered: 08-21-2007
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 12:01pm

'..It also bothers me when women my age are obsessed with finding/having a boyfriend.

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Registered: 01-26-2005
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 12:11pm

Oh, good for you! Sounds like you've got your priorities straight ;)

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Registered: 01-26-2006
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 12:14pm
Yes, I'm 23...and I have absolutely no issue with being single (ie not married, not never having a relationship until then :) )
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Registered: 06-04-2003
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 12:29pm

Few more thoughts on my personal philosophies....


There are people who while I value their right to have an opinion and give advice, I never ever take it from them and here's why:


If I know that you will never really be able to relate to what I am going through, you can say what you like and I respect it because it's your experience and it's true to YOU....


It's not true for me. So, thanks for your thoughts and ideas. I am sure it will work for someone, but

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Registered: 10-09-2007
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 2:10pm

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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 2:19pm

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Registered: 01-18-2007
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 2:32pm

Yes, I can appreciate how everyone is different in this regard and that there is no right or wrong way to be.


It is also possible that I have been a bit burned in the past, not so much through my own experiences, but in seeing first-hand some of the difficult relationships and the acrimonious

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Registered: 10-09-2007
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 3:23pm

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Thu, 11-29-2007 - 3:32pm

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Registered: 06-04-2003
Thu, 11-29-2007 - 4:29pm

<<<I think people are very different when it comes to emotional needs and intimacy. Some may need romantic relationships to feel happy and fulfilled but this is not the case with everyone.>>>


Whoop there it is!! I personally, am not a super emotionally needy person. I am truly about happy mediums. I want and need love, but you don't have to "sweat" me in order to make me feel loved and appreciated. If you show me you love me and say you love me, I don't need constant reminders. I believe you. I am pretty sure I got that from my mom.


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