Would love your opinions/experiences.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-16-2007
Would love your opinions/experiences.
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Mon, 07-16-2007 - 3:28am

I just met a guy off the internet who I actually went to school with but never really talked to until now (I'm 23). He was really cute on his personal ad, but it turns out he's not nearly as attractive in person. It's really amazing how different he looked in person. I'm used to dating guys who I find VERY attractive. I am not a superficial person, but it just happens that way. Anyway, I had a date with this guy and we clicked very well. We talked for a really long time and I started to like him a lot.

In your experience, is it possible to have a good relationship with someone that you're really not attracted to that much but who you get along with really well and have a lot in common? I'm pretty picky and I haven't had a boyfriend in a very long time because I don't want to settle for less. This guy is really nice and is everything I'm looking for aside from not being really attractive. What should I do?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2007
Tue, 07-17-2007 - 10:47am

Yea, I think I said one time I would just keep doing it wrong. (-: Kind of like my big ears, just one of those things that makes me . . .well me. (-:

What is that old saying, set the trends, don't follow them. LOL

We in America do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-06-2007
Wed, 07-18-2007 - 12:42am
If you want to sit another couple of months alone, then let him pass you by ... some other woman will be happy to have him. Take it from me, you may still be young but the sea isn't full of fresh fish. The older you get, the chances of you finding quality men gets slimmer. Don't let this man get caught up in another woman's hook because you're going to be lonely for awhile waiting for Mr. Handsome who may turn out to be Mr. Wrong.

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