Wow...just wow

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Wow...just wow
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Wed, 02-01-2012 - 8:43pm
Another shocker from TLC. I'm watching Hoarding: Buried Alive. Aside from the fact that this couple's house is full of trash, the man is having a very open affair with a coworker. The wife said she tried to "be bisexual" and have a threesome with them, but wasn't comfortable with it. They were recently evicted from their house and went to say with the woman he's having an affair with!!! He says he's ended it, but how can he if they are living together?

If someone's okay with a three-way relationship, I'm no one to judge. But the wife isn't, yet she stays! How? HOW? Do you tolerate that???
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Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: shywon
Wed, 02-01-2012 - 11:55pm

I saw that too! Wow, she was tall, huh? And his mustache? I'm surprised ANYONE has sex with him, much more that he's managed to become a swinger!

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In reply to: shywon
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 8:09am

I usually feel bad for the kids, too.

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In reply to: shywon
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 12:00pm

"But the wife isn't, yet she stays! How? HOW? Do you tolerate that???"

She doesn't love herself enough to leave.

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In reply to: shywon
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 1:34pm

Compared to husband, therapist and Wendy, she was tallest.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: shywon
Thu, 02-02-2012 - 1:39pm

I think there are always unseen complications.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: shywon
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 12:10am

Iran has temp marriages and other countries are thinking of the same.

For me that really has merit.

Goldfish

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In reply to: shywon
Fri, 02-03-2012 - 11:10am

I've been thinking that it's really difficult, esp. if you get married in your 20's, to decide whether you can live w/ this person for the rest of your life--who can really predict that?