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Mon, 02-13-2012 - 11:45pm

If you're under 18, don't read this or the boogie man who lives in your closet will come out and finally get you tonight. And if not him, then

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Registered: 02-13-2012
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 11:53pm

If a guy may cut in, your observations are probably accurate and they have a scientific basis! If you have the time, check out the 2 chapters about men and women in a book called "The Red Queen" by a zoologist. Synopsis is that we are the way we are for reproductive reasons.

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Registered: 02-26-2011
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 11:56pm

For most of my life, I've had no problem with men sowing wild oats.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Tue, 02-14-2012 - 2:40pm

Hey don't give up the ship--it's not too late, but I think you have a good answer as to why you can't find an actual man for a relationship if you start off w/ the premise that all men are untrustworthy & are going to hurt you--but that's another long post.

Of course I think most of us probably resort to battery operated assistance now & then, but I find it's definitely no substitute--it's not just the sex--it's also being kissed and touched by another person, which is missing & which I can't get from an inanimate object.

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Tue, 02-14-2012 - 8:25pm
I don't think you should give up on men. There are good ones out there! I promise!

I'm not really one for battery operated fun. My sex drive is like a light switch. Once it's on, it's on and takes awhile for it to get turned off. But once it's off, it's really off.
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Registered: 06-03-2009
Tue, 02-14-2012 - 8:25pm
Oh marina you never cease to crack me up! I think it is wonderful that your "husband" makes you so happy and there isn't a thing wrong with that. If I enjoyed the type of activities such a "husband" provided I might be inclined to follow suit, but in reality those activities don't thrill me whether he's battery operated or not. I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting an emotional connection and if you're not finding one then you have a healthy outlet to satisfy your needs. Not everyone manages to do that unfortunately.
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Registered: 01-02-2008
Tue, 02-14-2012 - 8:59pm

I just ask the mailman in for lunch and then one thing leads to another.. We have afternoon delight.. So much fun..

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Registered: 07-16-2001
Tue, 02-14-2012 - 9:03pm
The question is, Free, do you always have the same mailman? In my experience, the UPS guys are hotter.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Tue, 02-14-2012 - 9:35pm

well? I have to admit I do switch off when I can.. Yes; UPS guys are hot especially when they wear those brown shorts in summer. I think they hire them based on their sexy legs..

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Wed, 02-15-2012 - 12:09am

OMG!

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Registered: 06-03-2009
Thu, 02-16-2012 - 10:29pm
LOL you gals and your delivery men fantasies! I bet some of the attractive ones do enjoy a fling here and there, but if they value their jobs they probably do that after hours.
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