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Like You Already Know Each Other
| Tue, 12-19-2006 - 11:23pm |
When I was told to approach a girl like I already know her, like she is already my girlfriend, I recall that on my first day at a temp-job, a young woman there turned and smiled to me -- like we already know each other. She was a flirt, I have to say!
Then today at work I made a new friend. For we had ran into each other several times in the past, we already recognized each other. So today, when I greeted her, in a slightly sing-song tone, "Hey, there -- What 'sup?" she introduced herself to me and we talked ....
What do you think of the advice?

I've never heard of this "like you know her" approach before ... sorry. Honestly, if a guy came up to me who I had never met before and started talking to me as if he knew me, I'd think he were a little "off". Just me.
Now, if you mean to say that someone told you to put yourself in the mindset that you already knew a girl, to put yourself at ease, make yourself comfortable, I guess if that works for you then go for it.
Angie
Exactly!
That attitude makes you more approachable and more open to the person.
Kind of like how people react to you when you are smiling vs. when you are frowning.