You Can't Change Someone

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Registered: 12-11-2010
You Can't Change Someone
Mon, 01-27-2014 - 3:07am

As they say or I have been told, "You can't change someone" they won't change etc etc etc.

But I have always had to date guys who DID NOT drink, smoke, or do drugs. All of my ex-boyfriends did do these things but stopped cold turkey when dating me. Some managed to never do this stuff ever again, while 1 did it behind my back without me ever knowing until he admitted it.

So they sorta changed by not doing these things anymore after meeting me and for me.

But do you think this sort of change or other changes is a good thing or bad thing?