You guys would have been so proud!

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Registered: 07-16-2001
You guys would have been so proud!
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Sat, 04-14-2012 - 3:44am
I danced with a boy tonight. And I really mean "boy." I don't exactly know why I was okay with it tonight, but I was. I kept thinking about how I needed to give him a chance, plus, he was actually pretty respectful. He didn't attempt the whole grinding thing for quite some time, and when I turned my ankle, he was apologetic about it. We danced for probably two hours, just being completely dorky.

The weird thing is that we've probably met before. Awhile back, I sent a message to someone who used to sing karaoke at my old bar. He was there tonight and they were there together. He probably was at the old bar a few times and we never connected.

I did get his number and he's actually texting me now. At 2:30 in the morning. Which would be bad, but I kinda started it!

He's absolutely adorable and didn't try anything horrible. He did put his hand on my ass once, but was okay when I moved it back up to my back. The only problem...he's 24, and he thinks I'm 29. I didn't tell him that, he just guessed and I smiled adoringly!

I guess we shall see if anything come of it!

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Wed, 04-18-2012 - 10:32am

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Tue, 04-17-2012 - 7:42pm
Nothing. Haven't heard from him. Trying not to concern myself with it. And to be honest, if something were happening, I wouldn't share. I'm pretty private about that stuff.
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Tue, 04-17-2012 - 12:00pm

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Mon, 04-16-2012 - 7:26am
WOOOW!! Amazing stuff Shywon!! To ***l with it, text him yourself and see what happens!!! Well done!! THIS is what I mean by not wasting opportunities and doing things differently!!

Let us know!!
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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 04-15-2012 - 11:37pm

We are awaiting an update, Shy....

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 04-15-2012 - 8:35pm

Oh I am so proud of you.

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Sun, 04-15-2012 - 7:41pm
It can be irrelevant, and it can matter depending on the people.

He did actually seem interested, even though we were at a bar. He asked me questions about myself and didn't leave me to go talk to a younger, skinnier girl. I can't remember the last time a guy asked me questions about me instead of jabbering on about himself forever.

I hate to say it, but I do kinda hope I hear from him. I usually don't even care. I'm not going to think about it too much, though, because chances are he doesn't even remember my name.
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Registered: 02-26-2011
Sun, 04-15-2012 - 12:19am

Oooh! How fun!

Community Leader
Registered: 07-16-2001
Sat, 04-14-2012 - 6:42pm
If I hear from him, I'll entertain the idea. There's just a huge difference in the mindset of a 24 year old from mine. Mostly being that I don't have time to waste. The clock's ticking.

He did say he was in graduate school and all three of them (he was with two friends) seemed far more mature than other guys that age. Plus he's adorable.

I don't really expect to hear from him, but you never know.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sat, 04-14-2012 - 5:05pm
For a guy, I don't see that as a problem :-P

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