You Is What You Is

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Registered: 02-26-2011
You Is What You Is
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 2:25am

Third and final date with the Yogi tonight.


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Registered: 02-26-2011
Mon, 02-13-2012 - 11:26pm

With no disrespect intended to the guys here, I have to say, Shy, that I think they are under a HUGE amount of pressure to look good, make money, all the things xxxs and Crossing have mentioned.

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Tue, 02-14-2012 - 6:48am

I don't think men have nearly the same amount of pressure to please others as we do.

I totally agree about "pressure to please." Also known as:
Be compliant
Don't make a fuss
Don't call attention to yourself
Be pleasant
Don't be aggressive
Be motherly all the time
Don't be competitive
Be selfless
Don't overshadow your man

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Tue, 02-14-2012 - 2:08pm

That was then today there is great pressure to be all-in-one.