Younger guy.....
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Younger guy.....
| Sat, 09-29-2007 - 7:47pm |
Hello. Ok so Im back into the dating scene and I guess Im having some fun now until I meet the right guy. Well I met a guy a couple of weeks ago. The problem is that he is incredible young and I know that Im taking a big risk by speaking with him. Hes ONLY 22. I am 27 and I know thats horrible...I realize that he is probable not looking for a relationship which is fine because im playing the field for a lil until i find the RIGHT man. I know its not him but he is a nice guy and we hit it off right from the start. We went out to dinner, to the city, He took me out on his boat, I met his parents, I went to his house, we went out dancing..It was great...well until this week. All of a sudden the phone calls started to slow up...then 2 days ago he texts me and says "why am i the one always calling?" ok fine so i called him...he sounded completely normal. I asked if he wanted to get together yesterday. He said that he had a friends bday party but i could come out and meet him which is fine to me...I asked him to call and remind me..He said he would. Then we hung up and he promised he would call. He never did...I texted him friday afternoon "Whats up" and he never responded. I didnt hear from him..I still havent...I know that he has a busy schedule..school...work..(even on the weekends)..but come on..Im much older and I know how this works. I know he doesnt want anything serious but when u say your gonna call then call or even text ya know??!! Tell me that you would rather hang out with your friends..or even another girl...Do you think I should call or text him?? I dont want to seem desperate because im not!! and because i am older than him. Help I dont understand guys..even at a young age!!!

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No offence, but I am in between your ages (I am 24) and first of all I see no prob. with him being younger, you are not that much older! I don't see it as a bad thing. But anyway I think the texts are a bad idea, maybe not for everyone but for u and him. It seems like the texts are being miscommunicated or something, like u read too much into what the other person says by text (you AND HIM) and I think you guys should talk in person or on the phone more instead of texting. I swear I just don't get the big deal with text msgs, to me it's kind of immature! No offence, like I said.
Jilly
I also don't get why you automatically assume the guy doesn't want a gf. I get the playing the field thing sure, but he is 22 not 17! Lots of 22 yr old guys are married with kids. Lots of them are in long term rl. I know it may not be the norm where u are (I am in the south). But it's not unheard of! I actually know just as many guys who are 25-30 and don't want a gf or commitment at all.
Jilly
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