Your definition of available men?

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Registered: 09-07-2007
Your definition of available men?
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Thu, 11-01-2007 - 9:16pm

Hello Ladies,


As a 30 something lady, I have expanded my definition of what an available man means to me. I wanted ask you ladies:


What is your definition of available men?


1)Are you willing to marry a man outside of your race or religion?


2)Are you willing to marry someone 10 years younger?


3)Are willing to marry someone from another country, that has more men?


this should be fun!


Hotcarmel!


Chelle-

Amour-Propre

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 2:10am

Yay, looks like I'm the first to reply.


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Registered: 10-14-2001
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 11:14am

Yes, I have an affinity for Indians (as from India).

Soliel
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Registered: 08-16-2005
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 11:55am

1)Are you willing to marry a man outside of your race or religion?


Sure I don't have a problem with other religions but I'm not converting, and as long as I'm attracted to someone I'm not above dating another race either.


2)Are you willing to marry someone 10 years younger?


They would have to really impress me to have me date someone 24


3)Are willing to marry someone from another country, that has more men?


Sure as long as they are willing to move to the US. lol

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Deirdre

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Registered: 02-15-2005
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 1:53pm

I'm not interested in marriage, so I'll respond WRT


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Registered: 11-01-2005
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 4:15pm
Good answers, sisfox. Same goes for me, except on the marriage part.

AJ, enjoying life with C.

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 10:46pm
"What is your definition of available men?"

Since I'm feeling snarky & sarcastic, I'll bite:


available man (n): a man who has no wife (present or ex), girlfriend, children, parole

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Registered: 10-14-2001
Sat, 11-03-2007 - 4:03pm

LOL very funny Pooh!


Soliel
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Registered: 01-26-2005
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 7:33am

An available man for me is:

1) a guy within 5-6 years older than I am. I'd consider dating a guy who's up to two years younger than I am.
2) any race/ethnicity
3) single as in no woman out there thinks she is in a relationship with the man. Some guys say they are single but turns out they're involved..there's a blurry line between dating other people and being a little more involved with someone. Women tend to think things are more serious than guys do, so it seems.
4) Not "married but separated"
5) any religion but preferably someone not extremely religious

~Di


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Registered: 01-26-2005
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 7:34am
I have an affinity for Indians too :) There's something very attractive about that dark skin, hair and eyes.

~Di


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Registered: 01-26-2005
Sun, 11-04-2007 - 7:40am

"Are willing to marry someone from another country, that has more men?"

I probably would if I happened to meet a guy from another country. It would be really hard to move to another country not only because I'd miss my family and friends, but setting up my career in another country may be difficult. I guess I'd brave all that if I met the right guy. :)

~Di


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