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| Fri, 09-30-2005 - 8:01pm |
I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now. He is really good to me and my little boy. Well lately he has been making comments about other woman he works. One just had a baby and he was telling me about it when all of a sudden he starts talking about her boobs. He told me how big they had gotten.(him being a boob man) And how all the guys at work were just drooling over them. Okay the ? Should i be a little concerned? I am not a jelouse person but this one hit a small nerve. Why would he tell me this?
Jenny

Jenny,
I wouldn't be TOO worried, he probably didn't realize that the comment would make you uneasy. He's just sharing soemthing with you, there's no reason to believe that he's interested in her. You said yourself that he's a boob man, so, relax.
Mine loves butts, so I've actually pointed out some to him LOL!
Alison
I would mention to him that his comments made you feel insecure.
From what you write, I think you should chalk it up to a "guy thing" - guys are very visual creatures and this would seem natural and something humorous that you should not take personally. I speak from experience from working in a man-oriented environment for nearly 2 decades.
On the other hand, if he was doing this all the time with many women then you would have a less desirable situation that needs attention.
Maybe you could turn it around and ask him how he would feel if you made the same comment about a guy you work with?