1 quick word from the psyc ...

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1 quick word from the psyc ...
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 11:47am

Well, not the psyc, but his partner, Avereys counselor. I spoke with her this AM & she confers that he is scary & dangerous. AND, she was furious at me for doubting myself at all, & doubting that the psyc doc would EVER fall for his antics & NOT see what he truly is. She said Dr. K actually said to her "The guys presented like a psycho. He is ALL OVER the place. Its very clear this is all about HIM & what he wants, his wife back - & for that, he i holding the child hostage. He cannot seperate the 2".


THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU - that someone SEES BESIDES ME!

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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 11:55am

I have yet to reply to your posts on this subject but I have been following it.

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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 12:51pm
THANK GOD!!! I know when you are embroiled in the middle of such craziness you start questioning your OWN perception. I can't wait to hear what the doc says. I am so glad that the mental health professionals YOU are dealing with are able to actually go out on a limb and not be wishy washy due to liability issues!
Stephanie
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 12:54pm

Phew - what a relief!

Rosecolouredspecs
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 2:35pm
Great update!! This is just what you need - a professional opinion of where to go from here for handling both of them. I think we will all breathe a sigh of relief with this. Although more work is yet to come I would think.
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 9:24pm

Amen; Hallelujah; pass the chicken; and get it in writing!


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Soonee, too Suth'n for her own good

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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 12:03am
I just think it's really sad how much of your life is being wasted as you deal with your ex.
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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 7:56am
Oh no, my life is far from being "wasted". I have a beautiful daughter, an incredible family, a beautiful house by the ocean, 2 great dogs, friends who i see all the time - I have a great career that I love, I date & have had a couple good relationships since X, I have travelled all around the world & will continue to expose dd to travel, arts, etc ... he is but a BLIP in an otherwise fantastic life. It may SEEM as if life centers around him b/c of course when i post, its about him & the issues, but beleive me, my dd & I have an incredibly wonderful life, a loving relationship & sure, i was stupid to marry someone I knew wasnt totally stable (although he wasnt even CLOSE to how bad he is now), but i still woudlnt ever turn the clocks back b/c i have dd out of it. & would i move away? Not on your life. Why should *I* give up my life, my friends, my home - b/c of him?

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Wed, 11-28-2007 - 12:23pm

I totally agree with you Rebecca.

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