1st date tonite with Anthony, the other

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1st date tonite with Anthony, the other
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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:41am

engineer. We chatted a bit last nite & he is really intelligent, well read, etc. AND he chose an AWESOME restaraunt for tonite. NOW ... the wine test

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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 9:51am
Im excited for you for tonight but really really really JELOUS!!! LOL Have fun!!!!! I want details. On the other engineer...Im so selfish really. I hate when someone has to much going on in there lives. I start to think then they have no right to be dating if they are so busy they dont have time for me. That was one of College Styles flaws. Hes a HS golf coach, involved in the student councel, belongs to a fishing club, goes to the gym 6 days a week, plays golf with his buddies when weather permits etc...i felt like wow do i fit in anywhere? Really not worth my time to find out...see selfish LOL But keep us posted...and the toes will be what color tonight???
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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 10:11am

Toes? Same color, lol. In fact, i have a gift cert for a 75 minute HOT STONE MASSAGE at 11a, today! Whoo Hoo!

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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 10:17am

I just got to tell you, sister - I LOVE your confidence.

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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 10:58am
We'll be waiting for details.
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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 11:29am
YAY the possibilities....Good luck tonight and tell us all about it ASAP,lol!
As for the other guy - I dont know rlch. I tend to think that if someone is truly ready to have someone serious in their life they MAKE time, no matter how busy. If guys dont make plans I just start to feel like dating isnt their priority right now which is fine if it wasnt mine either but it seems it IS a priority for you....I think you need someone on that page. Obviously not willing to settle but still acknowledging that the search is ON!
What are you wearing to dinner?
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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 12:27pm

Oooh I hope this goes well!!!


I have this article that says you can tell what kind of person someone is attracted to by the wine they choose. If tonight he picks:


REISLING- he like the sweet, lighthearted types.


SAUV. BLANC- he likes the energetic, extroverts.


CHARDONNAY- attracted to sunny, mellow people who are not too complicated.


PINOT NOIR- likes complicated, senstive types. Will accept someone with high standards.


MERLOT- he likes the down to earth or earthy types. Drawn to laid back, senual personalities.


CABERNET- attracted to the adverturous and well rounded types- someone with depth.


~Pacific~
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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 3:24pm

Hey! I always wanted to use the YUM icon! lol

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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 3:33pm

YUMMMMMM.


Here's what I'm having, lol!

~Pacific~
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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 3:55pm

Im not too worried about someone w/ a lot going on in their lives, b/c *I* have a lot going on. I think worse would be someone who wanted me at their beck & call all the time. Sure, i suppose if i fell in love, I'd want more time, but my issue is I dont want to "waste" time chatting with someone, talking, etc - if I am interested, then I want to know he. Dates just once & a while are fine with me. Im definatly at this point not looking to find "the one". Of course I wouldn't pass him UP, but I'm having fun dating "around", so i dont want something serious - but again, i also dont want a phone, email buddy either.


On the OTHER hand .... i like guys with potential, & that usually means good jobs & maybe schooling & bettering themselves - WHICH ... takes time. So like him, he is bettering himself getting his MBA - & the guy tonite, has a HUGE job, so that takes up a ton of time as well ... it may just come with the territory of dating guys who are a bit more successful in their business. Make sense?

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Tue, 03-18-2008 - 3:56pm

A "rarity". lol

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