2nd date... Pattern???

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2nd date... Pattern???
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Tue, 01-29-2008 - 9:20pm

I could swear I have a pattern going....


It turns out that not only does the guy from the grocery not have kids and divorced because the wives were career oriented, but is also a cancer like the last two men in my life. WEIRD? Third one a charm?? LOL.


Anyway, he seems to at least like kids. He's a school counselor. But isn't yet ready to say no to not having a family. Which could be a potential problem, but not something I wanted to discuss during the second date. It just came up that he would have liked to have had a family of his own but it just didn't work out that way.


We went for Italian which was really nice. Another strange thing is this guys Dad is a retired accountant too with a disability. Just like Nascars dad. It was so weird to hear all the similiarities from the last two guys. Nascar was a IT guy, but Mr. History was a teacher and this guy is a counselor. ?????? Just odd.


He's another geeky nerdy looking guy and short, like the last two. I don't know what it is about me and the geeks, but I find them adorable, even though they end up like trouble too.


But it's not like they have a sign walking around, it's just odd how similiar. Prior to the last three I never dated a cancer or guys that had wives run out on them for their careers and now suddenly three in a row??

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 12:49pm
YESSS upon first sight and walking past him or getting to know him informally, yes, he's a HOTTIE, BUT reality is, he's butt ugly on the inside. So when I see his picture, I see nothing but disgust.
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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 12:55pm

FURSURE!!!!


And yes, it may make me picky, but I look for men that are like that. I love

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 12:58pm

Oh, now I understand the toady aspect. What a shame...to waste all that hottness due to his lame personality or lack of one!


You are so right- about how they begin to look ugly if they are jerks. Like Charlie Sheen, I used to think he was hot.

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 1:02pm
RIGHT! Or Sean Connery the wife beater. Before I knew, I thought he was hot. Same goes for a few other hot stars that are now ugly to me because of who they are. Kind of like a woman who is beautiful but so ugly on the inside that she's a total turn off for most men and they don't want to touch her.
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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 1:03pm

It's the mustache.

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 1:24pm

Ooohh, that picture of S.E. is hot!


Here's one....best looking guys over 50:


~Pacific~
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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 2:08pm

OK equal time!


Michelle Pfeiffer, 50 in April


Christie Brinkley, 53


Diane Keaton, 61 !

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 2:15pm

If I can even look even half as good as michelle pfiefer at ag 50 I will be HAPPY!!!!


And Cristie brinkly, She's 53????? WOW.

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 2:25pm
Absolutely! & whats SO funny is that those "weathered lines" around a guys eyes is EXACTLY also what i love. How about Kevin Costner when he looks "weathered" ... Yum!

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Wed, 01-30-2008 - 2:38pm

If I had that money, I would look like that no sweat! LOL


ok, my picks:


Ed Norton, Ben Stiller & Sean Penn