4th date

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Registered: 05-13-2005
4th date
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Wed, 05-21-2008 - 7:41am

Okay - typing fast before I have to get DS to school!

Last night we had so much fun! I picked him up and we went to the beach. I am not sure how we decided I was driving - it had something to do with the beach parking and where to leave my car - he lives near the beach.

The food was good and we had fun telling each other about our days. We went for a walk on the beach and talked a lot.

DS called to say goodnight and put himself to bed and he wanted me to check his vocab work in the morning so he was saying we should get up early for that. I think KarateMan was impressed with him. And so shortly afterwards we headed back so as not to keep us up too late and I think he was worried about DS.

I dropped him off and we chatted more - and decided we are done with Match! And we talked about this weekend - he is going away but wanted to coordinate his plans with mine so he could take me out on his waverunner and so we decided we will do that on Monday. He is going to see his land and take care of his mom - he always takes her shopping and does a bunch of things around her place to help her. He also showed me pix of him and his stepson and I liked that. He had some good family pix too so it was good to see the pix of the brothers and sister he is chatting about - plus he got an award for rescuing people out of a car that went into a canal.

And he wanted me to text him when I got home and so I did - I thought that was sweet.

I feel happy! And lucky!

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Registered: 09-25-2004
In reply to: cl_west1745
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 8:02am

Yay for you. Looks like finally a good guy is here. Sounds like you had fun and he seems responsible and good person.


I can already feel that you feel calm and assured about this one.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: cl_west1745
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 8:16am
"Done w/ Match?" As in ..... EXCLUSIVE????

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In reply to: cl_west1745
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 8:28am

Yes yes - done with Match and Eharmony. Exclusive!! I feel he really has a lot of the qualities and same values I have been looking for and he feels the same with me and we both agreed we just want to date each other - he doesn't want me on those sites and I feel the same about him. I think EH did a good job in matching us - but of course time will tell - I mean we both have busy lives but will continue to get to know each other. I like that it feels calm and happy.

The funny thing is that he was showing me his office and all of his karate belts and stuff and then he pointed to his computer and said that is how I met you. And that is how we got on that subject. I think we both feel grateful for EH.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: cl_west1745
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 8:39am
Sounds great West!!!!

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Registered: 09-29-2007
In reply to: cl_west1745
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 8:46am

Great for you!

However, you said 4th date...how about the details of the third date? We all know what date that is...........hehehhhehehehehehehehehehehehehehe!

zen

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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: cl_west1745
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 9:00am
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Registered: 09-29-2007
In reply to: cl_west1745
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 9:19am

Wrong details! LOL!

Sounded like a great date, but darn, the guy didn't get HIS third date....

zen

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Registered: 11-25-2007
In reply to: cl_west1745
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 9:19am

All sounds wonderful, he sounds like a great guy - you sound like you are excited but cautious like me at this stage.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Registered: 10-30-2004
In reply to: cl_west1745
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 9:21am
Not everyone subscribes to the third date rule ;)
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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: cl_west1745
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 9:50am
Agreed. We had discussed in the beginning that we would take things slowly - and so far that has worked out well. I explained I am not into casual sex and really want a relationship - and he really liked that I said that and he wants a relationship.

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