Aww!! What a really, really sweet thing to write about you! I know I don't know you that well, but I already love this guy for you!! SO worth the wait.
I just have a hesitation as to how overly infatuated you are with a man you haven't even met face to face yet. I think it's great that you want to meet with him, but I am a little concerned over the idea of throwing all the kids together for a "family vacation" when you don't *really* know this guy.
I know it's new and exciting, and I really think of anyone, YOU deserve to find a great guy! I just worry about moving too fast with someone you don't know, and I know that you would be the first to caution others if someone else was rushing things and involving the kids.
I really hope things go well and that he IS all that you are looking for. I just wonder if maybe you two might reconsider the FIRST meeting all together.
Whatever you decide, just take it slow and have fun.
I have to sing backup on this one as well. Out of all of us here you deserve a prince charming more than anyone. And I have watched you grow and learn a lot and I have faith in you that you can pick the right person for you.
Just be careful that the book won't be better than the movie - meaning the vision of him in your head is not better than real life - with distance it can be tricky because you don't get to see them on a day to day basis.
I only want the best for you and am here no matter what, okay?
"While I know if one of my daughter came to me with the same thing, that I would probably wig out on her"
That is a bit of humor, Cat!! You are funny!! But that is a good way to look at it - okay - so now my conscience rests and you are on your own good sense and efforts. I didn't want to rain on your parade - but didn't want to not say anything if I felt concern.
Aww!! What a really, really sweet thing to write about you!
I know I don't know you that well, but I already love this guy for you!!
SO worth the wait.
:)
--snow
Cat,
I'm really happy for you, I really am.
I just have a hesitation as to how overly infatuated you are with a man you haven't even met face to face yet. I think it's great that you want to meet with him, but I am a little concerned over the idea of throwing all the kids together for a "family vacation" when you don't *really* know this guy.
I know it's new and exciting, and I really think of anyone, YOU deserve to find a great guy! I just worry about moving too fast with someone you don't know, and I know that you would be the first to caution others if someone else was rushing things and involving the kids.
I really hope things go well and that he IS all that you are looking for. I just wonder if maybe you two might reconsider the FIRST meeting all together.
Whatever you decide, just take it slow and have fun.
Cat,
I have to sing backup on this one as well. Out of all of us here you deserve a prince charming more than anyone. And I have watched you grow and learn a lot and I have faith in you that you can pick the right person for you.
Just be careful that the book won't be better than the movie - meaning the vision of him in your head is not better than real life - with distance it can be tricky because you don't get to see them on a day to day basis.
I only want the best for you and am here no matter what, okay?
Keep us posted!!
He sounds great, just make sure to give him a chance to put his money where his mouth is.
While I do AGREE that we should
"While I know if one of my daughter came to me with the same thing, that I would probably wig out on her"
That is a bit of humor, Cat!! You are funny!! But that is a good way to look at it - okay - so now my conscience rests and you are on your own good sense and efforts. I didn't want to rain on your parade - but didn't want to not say anything if I felt concern.
Good luck and keep us posted.