Ahhh!!!

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Registered: 12-04-2003
Ahhh!!!
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Thu, 06-15-2006 - 12:14pm
Hi Everyone -
I have posted here once in a while but mostly lurk around the board and add my tow cents if I feel I have something to say.
Here is what I need feedback on, I have had a crush on someone and things seemed to be heading towards something. The last time we were together things became a little heated (and I am not talking an agrument) and he stoped and told me that they he needed to take his time with me because there is something between us and he went on and on why he is attracted to me. I didn't know what to say so I just kissed him. So a few days later I saw him and he mentioned that he was going to be on leave for a few days and I asked what he was going to do. He came back with he couldn't tell me and my response was "whatever" then later in the converstation he said "I've been a bad boy" and I asked what he meant by that and he said it would make me made and I gave him my standard "whatever" response.
So, here is my thinking...he was seeing someone all along that does not live in the area and he was going to see her. Am I on the right track? Was I played?
Thanks
Kristen
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2003
In reply to: krisyg
Thu, 06-15-2006 - 2:17pm
Hi Kristen! Not sure how old this guy is, but his maturity level sounds pretty low. He is playing games with you. It also sounds like all he is interested in is sex. Kick him to the curb and don't look back! You can do better than that!
Stephanie
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: krisyg
Thu, 06-15-2006 - 2:19pm

I must say I agree with Steph.

Sometimes I think our biggest troubles appear when WE have a crush on someone. Because we tend to put on the REALLY thick rose colored glasses and accept any crumbs of behavior instead of being picky and seeing what the other person's intentions are.

This is totally human!!

Sorry you had to go through this. But do keep us posted.

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Registered: 06-30-2003
In reply to: krisyg
Thu, 06-15-2006 - 4:17pm
Whether he's someone else or not, one thing is for sure, he's playing a game. Ummm, I agree with what the other posters have said. Don't try to figure him out. Just keep him out of your life.