All the stars must be aligned... :)

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Registered: 09-01-2006
All the stars must be aligned... :)
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Wed, 05-16-2007 - 12:07pm

Life is soooooo good right now. Yesterday I signed my separation agreement and moved into my new place. What a productive day. I am so happy - I feel complete euphoria at my new found freedom. I can't wipe the smile off of my face and numerous people have commented. When I talk on the phone they can hear it in my voice, a few people have told me that I am glowing. I think it is crazy just how different I feel but I am soooo happy.

I love my new home - it is full of boxes and not a lot of furniture but it felt like home right away. I think my girls (Tweety Bird 3 and Butter Cup 5) are going to love it there.

I am also free now to date and pursue a relationship with my former co-worker (I will have to find a name for him - how about Kazoo?). He is divorced with no children and just ended an engagement. We have known each other for almost 14 years. He says he has been attracted to me from minute one and looking back I realize that to be true now. I was clueless at the time though. We have always had a special relationship so this feels sooo easy. I hope to see a lot more of him. He was in Russia last week and he called me twice while he was away. Including on Mothers Day - just to acknowledge my special day. My x did nothing for me (no surprises there since he never ever did before). But still - Kazoo calls from Russia while the father of my children doesn't call once from Vegas in a week. My x (can I call him that even though we are just separated?) had the girls last night. So I snuck out and visited with Kazoo. I guess there will continue to be some sneaking around since I have no intention of introducing my girls to anyone unless I know for certain they are going to be around for the long haul.

Life is really good right now. It is hard to believe it can get any better.... somebody pinch me....

Rose who is happy to go through life with these Rosecoloured glasses......

Rosecolouredspecs
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Wed, 05-16-2007 - 12:25pm

Well congratulations on officially being separated! :) It sounds like everything is falling into place for you and I'm so glad! That is wonderful that you are so happy right now. Maybe Kazoo will work out for the best. Keep us updated!

Jennifer

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Wed, 05-16-2007 - 1:03pm
congrats on the separation phase and feeling free. I think that is very important. YOu should start writing your goals now. This way, on the down days, you can go back to the goals that you have written for yourself. This has helped me considerably after the separation and time and time again thereafter.
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Wed, 05-16-2007 - 1:43pm

Great idea - thanks! I am going to do that while I am in such a positive frame of mind.

Rose

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