My mother WAS soooooo NOSY and sooooooooooo controlling, that I actually had to move to another country to get rid of her. Why do you think I don't live in Germany anymore? I knew that if I were to move somewhere in Germany, she would be living next door to me ( I tried that 3 times, with no luck) . SHE IS THE MOST awful, controlling person I have ever encountered. She still does it, but I just don't talk to her that much. She cries everday since we left and just last week, she told me she has decided to move here to N.C. to be closer to me!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I mean what does she NOT understand? I have been crystal clear that she drives me insane! WHY???WHY?? WHY??? Does she not understand that I don't want her in my life? I love her, but I can't stand her! Does that make sense? Having ranted now, I just wanted to let you know, I
MY GOODNESS! WE HAVE THE SAME MOTHER!!!!! Down to the Tee! It is just wayyyyyy to weird! I have gone through the worst luck since I moved back to the States, but I am without my mother and I have never been happier. Its just so sad to admit that, but so true! She has no life but to put her nose into my life. She has no friends, no work, no nothing. Its AWFUL and she is so RUDE to everyone, stabs them and talks about them behind their back. But in front of you, she'll act as sweet as molasses; it just disgusts me! How can someone be so false? She tries to ruin every relationship in exactly the SAMe way that you do. I am so glad that she doesn't live with or near me anymore. Don't forget, I had her sharing a house in the same fashion that you explained. It was a disaster! I lost 5 years of my life because of it! I rather be poorer and no babysitter, then have her close to me.
They are double teaming you!!
I would not like it if my mom was that nosy. Do you have caller ID? Maybe you should limit the times you speak to her.
I DO have caller ID.
My mother WAS soooooo NOSY and sooooooooooo controlling, that I actually had to move to another country to get rid of her. Why do you think I don't live in Germany anymore? I knew that if I were to move somewhere in Germany, she would be living next door to me ( I tried that 3 times, with no luck) . SHE IS THE MOST awful, controlling person I have ever encountered. She still does it, but I just don't talk to her that much. She cries everday since we left and just last week, she told me she has decided to move here to N.C. to be closer to me!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I mean what does she NOT understand? I have been crystal clear that she drives me insane! WHY???WHY?? WHY??? Does she not understand that I don't want her in my life? I love her, but I can't stand her! Does that make sense? Having ranted now, I just wanted to let you know, I
Glad I'm not alone!
MY GOODNESS! WE HAVE THE SAME MOTHER!!!!! Down to the Tee! It is just wayyyyyy to weird! I have gone through the worst luck since I moved back to the States, but I am without my mother and I have never been happier. Its just so sad to admit that, but so true! She has no life but to put her nose into my life. She has no friends, no work, no nothing. Its AWFUL and she is so RUDE to everyone, stabs them and talks about them behind their back. But in front of you, she'll act as sweet as molasses; it just disgusts me! How can someone be so false? She tries to ruin every relationship in exactly the SAMe way that you do. I am so glad that she doesn't live with or near me anymore. Don't forget, I had her sharing a house in the same fashion that you explained. It was a disaster! I lost 5 years of my life because of it! I rather be poorer and no babysitter, then have her close to me.
Cat,
((((HUGS))))
I too feel that she's become the child and I've become the adult.
Oh, totally!