Am I the one that needs help?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2005
Am I the one that needs help?
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Sun, 01-13-2008 - 8:14pm

So my nice little romance of five months is over.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2005
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 11:23pm

You're right.

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 8:45am
I'm proud of you sweetie! Way to go! As for him learning a lesson? He won't. He'll continue to try and be nasty and rude and if he notices it doesn't work, he'll try other tactics. Maybe even sweet and loving one's that reeled you in on the first place. He doesn't get it and he doesn't think he's done ANYTHING wrong. It's all you! Not him! Sooo, just remember that and you'll do fine. The longer this keeps up, the more you lose respect of him and the better it will be to get over. :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 8:52am

Way to go!

I think though, that you should cut the cord - it is better to break up with him than have him break up with you - and then be done - no more contact. You will find one who will adore you and make you feel so much better than this - but that requires an action here - dump this one!

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 12:01pm

For me, the single most important thing for getting over someone is No Contact.

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