Am I a Player???

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Am I a Player???
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Wed, 10-31-2007 - 12:46pm

Ok gals,

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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 1:03pm

Hehe...I'm loving it! Moon, no worries!!! Enjoy this time!!!


The thing is, you're not committed, yet, to anyone. Night Golfer sounds promising, but so far you are casual dating him and then if things pick up with him you could become exclusive if you chose to. But for now...YOU GO GIRL!!!


I think it is great to have your options open. This can be the time of your life, seeing what and who is out there. I know that eventually you probably want to have that one special relationship, but at this particular point why limit yourself?

~Pacific~
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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 1:06pm
Lucky - and smart and all about YOU. GOOD!! That is the way it should be. I think that until you are in an exclusive relationship (mutually agreed upon verbally by BOTH parties) or married then you are fair game and have to be only concerned about you and who you can "get"
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Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 1:30pm

Thanks, gals.

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Registered: 12-28-2004
In reply to: mnmoon70
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 2:22pm

UGH! Don't give yourself that name, that's a bad name in my book. Seems to me you are meeting different people. It's not like your exclusive with one. (yet ;) If you were exclusive and was going out with others, then you're a player, IMO, and I think you are far from that.

Sharon -- Sam Elliott YUM!!!

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Registered: 03-25-2002
In reply to: mnmoon70
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 6:43pm

I've thought the same thing at times... My coworker used the word "player" after i told him about dating three guys at once... He said it jokingly but still... i wondered.

I think the difference is the honesty. If you are honest and being yourself, then you are not a player.. You are simply a desired, in demand, single woman. Nothing wrong with that! YOU get to choose who you go out with.. you are not waiting by the phone..

And all that positive energy will attract even MORE men.... Welcome to "It's Raining Men".

my opinion is that anyone who criticizes you for it is probably jealous.

Loonybunny

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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: mnmoon70
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 7:31pm

I agree!


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Registered: 09-11-2007
In reply to: mnmoon70
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 9:36am

You all confirmed what I felt, and I appreciate that.


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Registered: 12-28-2004
In reply to: mnmoon70
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 11:13am
Nothing wrong with making new friends. Sounds like you had a great time. You go girl!
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Registered: 08-08-2007
In reply to: mnmoon70
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 1:06pm

Moon,


He sounds really nice! I got those warm fuzzy goose bumps when you wrote: He has a special needs 16 year old daughter that he is raising on his own.

~Pacific~
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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: mnmoon70
Fri, 11-02-2007 - 1:08pm
Moon! This one sounds very wonderful. Please keep us posted!

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