What was his reply to your question, about if things get rocky again in the future?
I truly believe what they say about we must not punish the person of a new relationship for the actions of a person of a past relationship. This was something that I struggled with in the very beginning but I want to think that I have grown tremendously over the past 4 years. I now treat every single person in my life as an individual, I don't generalize anyone about anything. I pick my battles very carefully. And some of those battles that I fight are with myself. I have come to concern myself more with my own actions and reactions rather than concentrating on my boyfriends or anyone elses.
My boyfriend is a good guy, has some faults (don't we all) but there is no doubt that he loves me. We have been together a month short of a year now and you are not going to believe this but he still has a profile on yahoo personals and his status on myspace states "Single". I of course took my profile down the day I met him. (We met at the laundrymat and discussed that we both did have profiles up-I had met more people by chance meeting and the only thing that I got from the personals online were some friends that I still have).
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What was his reply to your question, about if things get rocky again in the future?
I truly believe what they say about we must not punish the person of a new relationship for the actions of a person of a past relationship. This was something that I struggled with in the very beginning but I want to think that I have grown tremendously over the past 4 years. I now treat every single person in my life as an individual, I don't generalize anyone about anything. I pick my battles very carefully. And some of those battles that I fight are with myself. I have come to concern myself more with my own actions and reactions rather than concentrating on my boyfriends or anyone elses.
My boyfriend is a good guy, has some faults (don't we all) but there is no doubt that he loves me. We have been together a month short of a year now and you are not going to believe this but he still has a profile on yahoo personals and his status on myspace states "Single". I of course took my profile down the day I met him. (We met at the laundrymat and discussed that we both did have profiles up-I had met more people by chance meeting and the only thing that I got from the personals online were some friends that I still have).
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