And Sean's been calling all night

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Registered: 03-25-2002
And Sean's been calling all night
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Tue, 10-16-2007 - 12:32am

It's only Monday, too... And he's been calling since 8:00 tonight... but i never answered. First i was watching Hero's at 9:00.. then i came to work to finish my DEMO reel.. I still didn't answer because of coworkers... then he texted me "are you at work?" which i was.. so i replied stating i was working and probably working til very late.

His latest text is "i don't care what time you get finished. Wake me up."...

i don't think i will, though.. because i'll be really tired if/when i finish my stuff tonight...

BTW, the man list is kinda thin these days... Just Sean and Alaska this week. And maybe a few others i haven't given up on but didn't hear from in a while (like Goofyguy).

Loonybunny

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Tue, 10-16-2007 - 6:07am
Good job! The thing I don't like is that he wants you to come and be with him because he is bored or wants sex. It is not like he is trying to impress you and take you out and show you a fun time. It is a drain on you. Although I do understand that the sex and attention are good. It just seems like you are doing a good job of putting yourself first.
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 10:30am

I agree with Judy- while it's good that he's calling EARLIER... he's still not wanting to take you out and have fun- instead he's just asking you to come over for sex.

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Tue, 10-16-2007 - 12:17pm

Yea... that's why he's my FWB.... i like the benefits. And there isn't any confusion. I know what he wants when he calls... sure sometimes i get an impression that if he calls me ALOT in one week that maybe HE'S getting attached BUT if i were really concerned then i'd ask him about it. At this point, i'm not concerned.

And btw, there wasn't a mixed message... we have a good thing going on. it won't last forever, but for now it still works. In case you missed some of the other updates, he asked me how my other date went and i told him about it. That date didn't go so well... so I'm still a single woman... and decided there wasn't any need to end thing after all..

Loonybunny

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 10-16-2007 - 10:22pm

You got a good thing going, why fight it, right? LOL!


That would be funny if HE was getting attached- and maybe you being a little bit of a B.I.T.C.H. to him is helping that along...


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