Another Apology

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Registered: 05-05-2004
Another Apology
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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 2:16pm
I almost forgot that I wanted to tell everyone that Paul called me on Wednesday night to apologize for our conversation on Sunday (the one when he told me he didn't want a relationship, he just wanted sex). In my opinion, he needed to apologize because there was no reason to get mean just because I wasn't going to give him what he wanted. Then he asked me if I would go out with him again. I guess he figured I would eventually change my mind about no sex. I told no because he doesn't want a relationship, and I do, and I saw a side of him I didn't like. He was mean for really no reason, and I didn't want to deal with that again. I can't believe he would actually think I would go out with him again. Go figure.

Donna

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 2:19pm
Good for you Donna...for sticking with what you know is a good plan!

Some women go back again and again and again to a man/relationship that they know is bad for them. That's why men think it might happen...it does happen. I'm glad you're not going back for seconds on this one.

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Registered: 07-29-2003
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 2:24pm
Good for you Donna!!
Lori
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Registered: 06-30-2003
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 2:29pm
I'm glad you turned him down. He lost his temper if a very ugly way. It would be one thing if you broke up on friendly terms, but he showed himself for who is by getting mean. Yeah, stay away from him.
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Registered: 05-25-2004
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 2:46pm
Hah!! Good for you!! What a resolution!!
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 2:59pm

Men think women will give them another chance, even after they completely disprespect the woman in question, because so many women DO IT!


We see it here on this board all the time. Women are disrespected and say "no way. No MORE. I am putting my foot down. I deserve better" .... a week later they're telling us how they understand WHY he was such a creep, and how he was sorry and he'll do better.


I am SO PROUD of you for doing the right thing. Apology is nice. Take it a move on... "NEXT!!!"

Becky

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 3:27pm
Good for you! He definitely is a moron.

Hugs

Tara