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Another ghost
| Sun, 05-20-2007 - 7:58pm |
Well- I was supposed to go for dinner with L on friday, but after getting a text that he was running late because he was helping his dad fix a toilet and then another one saying that he just got home at 630, I went home and went on msn.


I love your attitude, Alison!
You're absolutely right- the explanation is unneccessary. I love how you moved on, didn't whine, and have already set up plans for other dates.
Have fun, and obviously we want details!
Moody, with a round of applause for you
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LOL- well I know *I'm* a great catch, so really it's his loss!
I totally agree, Allison! Knowing the "why" in this case just doesn't change anything! I can understand wanting to know the 'why' if it was a long-term relationship coming to an end. That way you CAN get closure and learn from understanding why it didn't work... but in the just-meeting stages?? There really isn't a reason to know the details. It's just not a match, and you move on. Way to go on such a great attitude!
I think approaching it any other way would just make us second-guess anything and everything too much. Especially with OLD when ghosting is so common anyway.
~shrimpy
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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Well, even knowing the "why" in a long term relationship is hard- I mean, with J he didn't want to be a father figure in my son's life, even though he did for 2.5 years.
LOL= nanny nanny boo boo!
Yes, that's SOOOO true!
"So I continue on!"
AMEN! That is the motto for all of us!!