Another nitemare X situation ....

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Another nitemare X situation ....
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Mon, 09-24-2007 - 9:29pm

God! Will it NEVER end? No, it wont. B/c he is her father. I hate this.

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Registered: 07-12-2007
Mon, 09-24-2007 - 9:40pm

That stinks what a pain, I think I would have been crying with her.

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Mon, 09-24-2007 - 11:55pm

Sending you and your daughter HUGS Rebecca. It sounds like a no-win situation. What a sensitive sweetie your daughter is! She is very lucky to have you as a mommy. Unfortunately she will have your ex as the primary male role model. Have you suggested to your ex a support group...? I don't know if there is a bi-polar support group or not.

HUGGGS
Mark

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 12:09am
"Suggest to your X, a support group" ... Mark, when i tell you i have suggested TONS of help for him. For years i held his hand & filled out the paperwork,& made the calls, & filled the scripts ... nothing works. & yes, she is so sensitive.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 12:11am

Oh beleive me, there have been many times we have cried together. I cry for the pain she goes thru

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Tue, 09-25-2007 - 12:22am

It looks like you are giving your sensitive, wise, and smart daughter the tools to put her father in context and to help her in dealing with his ups and downs as much as anyone can.

So tough! What I admire about you Rebecca is your steady, grounded approach in dealing with him and helping your daughter.

Best to you,
Mark

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Registered: 02-08-2006
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 7:37am

Poor Averey!


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Tue, 09-25-2007 - 8:43am
I'm sending you HUGE hugs, because I would be going absolutely insane in your shoes. Your X is as unstable as mine. I do not even have a suggestion, because I already think you are doing everything in your possible powers to do the best that you can for Ave.
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Tue, 09-25-2007 - 9:17am

Lots of (((hugs))) to you and Ave!

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 9:26am

Oh Sweetie.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 10:08am

I agree with what Moon writes about what you can control. And I think the nanny is just the ticket - good thinking. Sorry you had to have such an ordeal before work. And no - do not put any of that in writing. Just deal with him one day at a time - either he is fit to take her or he is not and it is no big deal - today might not be good but there is always tomorrow.

If I was you I might refuse to ever speak about what happened in the marriage. Because that is done and is only going to get in the way of what is to come. I don't think he is capable of realizing his part in the doom and I don't think he would ever see it or admit it. Just focus on Avery and the day.

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