Any Ideas How I Can Get Out of This?
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|Wed, 04-21-2010 - 12:05am|
OK, I'm still angry and disgusted at what John did that it's hard to be in the same room with him. (Hard to believe a couple of weeks ago it was hard to be in the same room because I was attracted; now I'm repelled.) He's too clueless to realize I've been more distant. He pops in my classroom to say hi, he's in the office when I check my mail. Yuck.
Now he found out I'm moving (I sure didn't tell him.), and he volunteered to help. Thinking fast, I said thanks, but I already have a bunch of people helping, but John said, "You can never have too much help. The more people, the faster it goes!" Um, I said, I'm sure you have better things to do (like boinking your former jail-bait gf), but he said no, he's completely free.
I don't want him to help! I don't want him handling my crummy stuff. I don't' want to be indebted to him. I don't want him to be around for hours. And if he brings his gf, I might get a migraine. I know she was so young that even if she WAS "stalking" him, she was the victim, but I don't like her. He's a sleazeball. Maybe I should be grateful for the help, but I'm not. I'm already stressing over the move and what a complete jerk my ex is being and don't need this.
Any ideas on how I can get out of this? Or, failing that, how I get through Saturday? Any advice appreciated!