Anyone have tissue?

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Registered: 12-27-2006
Anyone have tissue?
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Tue, 04-22-2008 - 12:49am
I called MCDAD....left a voicemail.( don't usually leave them) So, I said I still have your jacket. He called me back. Said he didn't know what time he got home yesterday, he was tired but had a good weekend. The conversation was SOOOOOOO strained. I asked when he wanted his jacket. He said anytime.....Long pauses between each statement we made. He finally said he was going to take some

~Karen
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 04-22-2008 - 1:32pm

I'm sorry to hear you are hurting.

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Registered: 12-27-2006
Tue, 04-22-2008 - 1:34pm
Thanks everyone...I know to some it may seem silly to feel the way I do. But, my feelings are real. I hate games, I really feel the need to know what's going on so I can move forward. So for me, not calling him is tough. At this point it is what it is....I'm weighing all my options and will have to figure it out. Whether it be right, wrong or indifferent....sigh......

~~Tiny


You said you couldn't stand to see my heart broken...so when you broke it, did you close your eyes?

~Karen
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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 04-22-2008 - 2:40pm

Im sorry its hurts Honey. But please, try to forget ... move on ... let him come to

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 04-22-2008 - 2:58pm

The way I view communication with people, no answer is an answer (if I know they got my question/communication).


The way it looks to me, McDad has had time and opportunity to give you an answer if he wanted something else than a FWB relationship with you.


Mark

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 04-22-2008 - 4:40pm

It is not silly to feel the need for an explanation from him.

But I think what Mark says is right - that you already have one:
"The way I view communication with people, no answer is an answer (if I know they got my question/communication)."

And I think that if you talk to him more he is going to make you feel worse - because it will be all about him. I guess that is why we are all saying - the decision is now YOURS to make - that he is not worth your time and you are not waiting for a crummy call or something else to make you feel bad.

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