Arggghhh! Men

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2007
Arggghhh! Men
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 9:54am

I've been trying to catch up on what all you guys have been up to while I was gone to NY with Builder.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 12:32pm

Happy Birthday Cool Cat0002!!!! I wish you the best for a special day!!

Well, I think guys are more prone to forgetting birthdays- but but but but but but - if everything is going smooth and they are a great guy we can tell them and they make it special and we keep going on and forgive. BUT on the other hand, if things are not smooth and we try to hint and they don't get it - well then - that is one more thing that seems bad so to speak - which is sort of what it sounds like here - that he threw a big fit about his when you were busy - and then did stuff you didn't like on the trip - and now he is not on the ball - it is like a snowball going in the wrong direction.

I think for now you should just enjoy your day and make plans without him - keep on smiling - the world is a better place with you - we have always enjoyed your posts and help here.

Do you have plans for today and tonight?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 12:35pm
Oh I love the bling!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2007
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 1:14pm

Love the gansta cat - rofl

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 1:17pm

I like Corona too!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2007
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 1:24pm

Thanks West!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2004
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 1:37pm

HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY GANGSTA C-CAT!!!


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OK So not a very "gangsta" pic but happy wishes just the same!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 2:21pm

Happy Birthday Lisa!


I'm sure he was thinking about it as a "make mental note" last week and hasn't yet clued in THIS week that TODAY is your bday.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2008
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 9:34pm

Welcome to the forgotten birthday club. I was in your shoes last week. Same deal. We talked about it and he blew it off.

Geritol? Jeez I'm a dinosaur compared to you. Yes, it sucks that they forget. And I am like you, just wanted a 'happy birthday'. Do you think its payback? God I hope not.

Anyhow HAPPY BIRTHDAY from the posters on ivillage. I hope you did something fun and for yourself today.

Laurie

anonymous
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2008
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 9:46pm

True. Make your needs known. But a 'happy birthday' is the least of what one can expect.

Oh and I forgot to tell the board that I did get a mystery 'happy birthday' for mine. Its still a mystery. I work as an air traffic controller. A pilot I dont know flew in the day after my birthday and said 'happy birthday'. I asked who he was and his reply was, 'doesnt matter, but the whole east coast knows its your birthday.' So I called every pilot and controller I am friends with who knew it was my birthday to find out who it was that prompted this. But they all denied it. So the mystery continues.

So lesson here...if a stranger can tell me happy birthday, a BF sure as well better say something.

Laurie

anonymous
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 07-10-2008 - 1:10am
I hope he feels like COMPLETE CRAP when he realizes he forgot!!!!!

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