Ok... so I had a lunch date with this guy 3 weeks ago today.
Although I might be tempted to say that he must just not be all that into you, after dating guys in their late 40's early 50's and finding the same problem, it just is a thing with guys who have responsibilities. I have learned to point out before hand that I will be making adjustments in my schedule to accommodate him so he is less likely to flake out. Hey, but if you can get younger men instead- go for it. LOL
i was going to say the same thing that QB said... he's just not into you if he changes plans because he's "tired"... but i haven't dated many 40+. maybe it is legit.
If he flakes, my opinion is go out to the College bar and enjoy your kid free night. Or call up some girls and meet up with them. Either way I hope you have a great evening. Some of my best nights were last minute change of plans.
Well he texted about 9, they were stuck in oregon and he said he wasn't getting back into town til after 11, and he had an hour drive home, so he canceled.
Dang it! Sorry to read this.
I don't know what to tell you about the age thing. I'm the opposite- my men have to be at least 5 years older, but no more than 12.
Date the age range with which you are comfortable. If the mid-twenties are more your type, GO FOR IT!
He does honestly sound very busy with his job.