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| Tue, 06-24-2008 - 5:09pm |
Okay, so after the hot date, I emailed AW and told him how much I enjoyed our evening.
| Tue, 06-24-2008 - 5:09pm |
Okay, so after the hot date, I emailed AW and told him how much I enjoyed our evening.
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I agree... any man who is worth dating or keeping, will want to find out who you are on the inside rather than just try to GET INSIDE you.
I just find it odd that he would mention a connection (implying emotional?) but yet mention being horny at the same time (implying NOTHING but physical)... so which is it?
If I was going to continue seeing him, I would tread carefully and go slowly.
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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I had to giggle Shrimpy!
I kind of know where he is coming from. The level of connection I felt and still feel with J1 scared/scares the crap out of me. It's not stopping anything but it is slowing the tempo way down while she and I get to know each other.
I think PacSun said it best, just talk to him. Tell him how you feel and let him now it's ok to talk about how he feels. Slow down until you know who he is.
Laura, have you heard from him again?
For me, if I have an emotional connection with a woman then I get horny.
I think this is a very good point that Mark makes. I bet that men respond to all kinds of reasons that make them want to have sex, and feel a sexual connection. Much like women we have different things that trigger our desire. Certainly men often have a more sensitive trigger ;o) and might get triggered more easily. But its a good point. Some men get excited when a woman strokes their ego, some men are very turned on to a woman who shows a lot of interest in them, or who are affectionate, passionate.
I learned that from BE. We talked a lot about what he responded to in his past. He, like probably a lot of men, responds to and is sexually connected and into a woman who is into him and not afraid to hide it.
I agree with Mark and Pac on this.
Thanks to everyone for their insight and help.
I emailed him back and told him how much I appreciated his honesty.
Well the brief response was at least positive. I'm sure typing that 4am was part of the reason it was brief. Its good to ask for clarification but I would not be very pushy. He sounds intersted now let him take the lead. I would let it go and not email or call again until he does. You have both admitted/established attraction and interset so now just him do the man thing and chase/call you next time. He will!
The other suggestion was for him to come here, and teach me to use my chainsaw.
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