Back form the dead, sort of.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Back form the dead, sort of.
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Thu, 10-23-2008 - 1:35pm

Well dang it.. the flu knocked me on my butt!!! I had not been that sick in years. My boss just walked by and asked how I am..I think she is just glad I am a warm body filling the position again lol. I'm about 75 percent back to status quo. Still have a congested ear and sinuses, and a wicked cough. So much for the freaking flu shot!


On top of the flu I got really down about some things that were coming to a boil between BE and I but we have worked it out. I was feeling lonely and that he made time for everything else in his life except for "us" and I was starting to pull/nag. In return he would pull back and leave me feeling even worse. Vicious unhealthy cycle. So we talked it out. After putting on my big girl panties and also reaching back into the wisdom I have learned here, I realized and communicated to him that it is MY life I have to work on, not him. I have to get back to my interests, friends, and not depend on his time with me

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 1:45pm

I know your frustration!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 2:08pm

Thanks Isys!

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 2:21pm

AND substituting for his leage on Thursday night...leaving us with no time.


Oh yeah I hear ya.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 2:30pm

Before we moved in, he used to bowl Thursdays also (4 nights out) but together we concluded that he would give up one night when I moved in, as to make more time for us. Now its like he keeps letting things seep into our time again.


Alot of times I was actually kind of jealous of EG because he basically did what he wanted to do regardless of if it was "our" time or not.

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Registered: 07-15-2008
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 2:33pm
((((PAC)))) I am so glad your feeling better...I have way missed you!

JH


This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; the being a force of Nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy.


JH

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Registered: 11-29-2006
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 2:35pm
(((HUGS))) and sorry you got the flu - that's never any fun. I'm happy, though, to hear you're getting back to finding YOU again, and I know that'll make you feel much better, too. :)


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Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 2:42pm
Awwww thanks Tiara!!! I've missed you guys too! Now back to my usual hornery self. lol!!
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Registered: 02-15-2008
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 3:36pm

Now back to my usual hornery self.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 5:01pm

LOL!!


I meant "onery"


but the other fits too. I almost attacked BE this morning. He was like "Oh, you're feeling better" ;o)

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Thu, 10-23-2008 - 5:12pm

You sure can tell where MY mind is today??


~b~

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