Back form the dead, sort of.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Back form the dead, sort of.
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Thu, 10-23-2008 - 1:35pm

Well dang it.. the flu knocked me on my butt!!! I had not been that sick in years. My boss just walked by and asked how I am..I think she is just glad I am a warm body filling the position again lol. I'm about 75 percent back to status quo. Still have a congested ear and sinuses, and a wicked cough. So much for the freaking flu shot!


On top of the flu I got really down about some things that were coming to a boil between BE and I but we have worked it out. I was feeling lonely and that he made time for everything else in his life except for "us" and I was starting to pull/nag. In return he would pull back and leave me feeling even worse. Vicious unhealthy cycle. So we talked it out. After putting on my big girl panties and also reaching back into the wisdom I have learned here, I realized and communicated to him that it is MY life I have to work on, not him. I have to get back to my interests, friends, and not depend on his time with me

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 7:47am

And I get a little hurt that we have so much limited quality time as it is and he would want to squander it!!

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 12:24pm

Good that EG suggested some fun this weekend! Awesome ;o)


Mini Update here: So the past two nights (my free nights Weds and Thurs eves till 8:30) went sooo well. Even though

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 12:29pm

Pac, I'm sorry to jump in late here, but I'm SOO happy to hear your 'refreshed' update.


You deserve that, especially after getting hit by the freakin' flu bus!!!


Good for you.


Moon

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 1:09pm

Thanks moon.


My funky flu fog has lifted. Now I got to get my butt in gear and finish dd's costume AND get ready for her halloween party at our house tomorrow. The flu set me back a few days so I'm so behind!!


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Registered: 10-30-2004
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 1:12pm
Yeah for Pacific!!!!!!
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 10-24-2008 - 1:19pm

Good luck with the costume!

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