Best Ways to Get Over an Ex

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Registered: 11-29-2006
Best Ways to Get Over an Ex
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Wed, 09-12-2007 - 12:10pm

What are your surefire ways to get over an ex? Revenge? A makeover? A girl’s night out? Help the brokenhearted and share your best ways to get over a breakup.









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Registered: 04-08-2003
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 12:18pm

Invite your friends over for a night at your house for

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 12:26pm
I don't think there is 'one' way to get over an Ex.
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 2:43pm

The first thing is to know in your head that you can't be together anymore and that it is time to move on and find the love you really deserve. Doesn't matter the reason. And you are always better alone than with MrWrong.

Recipe to make you forget: Time, people, activities.

Force yourself to stay busy - and find new things to do. Clean the closet - go shopping for new clothes, shoes, jewelry and accessories. If you can't afford them, buy them all online and do not use the checkout button for the shopping cart! LOL!!

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 4:02pm

Personally, I think I was over my ex before he WAS my ex. It was like I woke up one day and thought "I've had enough....get the heck out of here" I was sad afterward but I think the reason I was sad was that I had worked very hard at keeping everything together and trying to have my dream of just raising a family and being a wife and then to just have to end it.


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Registered: 02-08-2006
Wed, 09-12-2007 - 5:09pm

Emma, that's exactly how I've felt at the end of my relationships.


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Wed, 09-12-2007 - 11:37pm

I definitely stayed too long.

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Wed, 09-12-2007 - 11:59pm
Wine & Sex.

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Thu, 09-13-2007 - 12:00am

Emma, ME TOO.

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Registered: 12-28-2006
Thu, 09-13-2007 - 3:12pm

LOL, that's what worked for me, too! What was especially satisfying once was breaking up with N. after realizing I was just DONE, then finding out he'd been cheating on me, and then going over to A's (my ex), having a few drinks with other friends there, sending the other friends home and spending the night with A., lol. Merry Christmas to ME! WHEW! ;)








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Registered: 05-13-2005
Fri, 09-14-2007 - 9:14am

I forgot to mention the MOST important one of all: Log in to this wonderful board and type out your whole story - that is therapy in itself. But the best part is that everyone reads it and most have usually been in the same boat and you know you are not alone and that you have such fun pen pals here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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