Best Wishes on the 16th
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| Sat, 04-29-2006 - 3:50pm |
Since things will remain the same between me and this woman I call Mary is this an appropriate thing to write on the best wishes card that I plan to give her on the 16th? It will be blue with some type of flowers on it. Something simple and soft.
Mary,
In the short time that I have known you, you have taught me more about life than anyone ever has. None of my friends or family have ever seen me happier than I have been since I met you. You've taught me about family, friendship, and change, things that are priceless. In the future when our paths cross we can have a fun time and learn more about eachother.
I wish nothing but the best for you, your daughter, and your family in your new endeavors. You deserve nothing less than joy and happiness.
Unitl next time, Best Wishes!
Aces

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Im sorry but as lovely as that all sounds, it just seems too much to me. If I was her, I would think you are beginning to hassle me now.
You have explained how you feel several times already, she has said how she feels (which isnt the same as you) so why do you need to contact her again with yet more stories of how much you like her and how much she means to you. This constant need to express your devotion to her is making uncomfortable reading to me.
Send her a card by all means but I would just keep it brief and say "Good Luck for the future. I wish you all the best. Thank you for the fun times. Or words to that effect. That is simple and to the point.
Im certain you will still go ahead and do what you want to do as you have done in the past, we always have to do what we feel is right regardless of whether it actually is or not, but Im hoping you will now finally move on from what is fast becoming an unhealthy obsession on your part.
Good luck.
Edited 5/2/2006 7:34 am ET by dillydrip
I think it is very sweet. One little change suggestion - I would make it more about her and her move and less about you.
Something like:
It was really nice to meet you - and while I am sad to see you go - I wish you all the best for your new move. If you ever need anything for you or your daughter I am only a phone call away.
Keep in touch and take care,
aces