Bikerguy as made contact....!

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Bikerguy as made contact....!
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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 8:56pm

Yes, he just called. He told me that he's been working 12 hour days and not sleeping well. Has a hard time falling asleep and then has to wake up early. We chatted for about 10 mins and I could tell he's exhausted. He said the job is progressing and because he works so many hours, he can leave at 12:00 or so on Friday and come home. We talked about little things that are going on and since we used to always take a motorcycle ride to the a local mountain lodge on Wednesdays with friends, he thought I might still go with the crowd and wanted to tell me to have a good time. I told him not this week but maybe next. I didn't tell him I missed him, only that I was glad he called and he told me to be "good" which made me chuckle.

So, I was happy to get a call and had actually talked myself out of calling him and I'm glad I didn't. Feels good that it came from him on his own.

Cat

Cat
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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 9:00pm

So rest yourself. It's not that he doesn't care- it's because he is BUSY. ((((((hugs)))))) about it all anyway. LDRs suck, but they can be worked through too. Especially when it's only temporary.


Hang in there- and find your OWN busy things to do in the meantime!


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 9:07pm

And I just read your other post in that other thread...


You need to TELL HIM about how much this whole communication/keeping in touch thing means to you!!!!!! If it can make your insides rumble and tumble the way it seems to... then you need to share that with him, and let him step up to the plate and ease your mind and heart (fears?) that he cares and things are fine. How can he ever "call more" if he doesn't even have a clue that the amount of calling he does, is even upsetting or affecting you in any way?


~shrimpy

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 10:38pm

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 10:53pm
YEAH!! That is always a good thing when they call. I think many have no idea how much we like it!
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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 12:57pm

Yay Cat!!


I am happy to hear that. I know how you were feeling. It is good that he made the effort to call you. It shows some initiative and that he was thinking about you. It sounds good also that he will get to come home early in Friday.


Yes!!! :o)


~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-09-2005
Thu, 05-01-2008 - 1:03pm

Thanks.

Cat
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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 1:18pm

:o)


Yay!! What a great way to start your day!!


I'm smiling for you!

~Pacific~
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Thu, 05-01-2008 - 1:51pm

I'm glad he called.

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Registered: 10-09-2005
Thu, 05-01-2008 - 2:58pm

I plan on letting him know in the future if I'm not content with the amount of communication.

Cat