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Fri, 03-11-2005 - 11:56am

NO nice guys on the horizon at the moment...Mr. Friendly suddenly hasn't called, so I must assume he's "NTIM"...


a couple of men lurking around who would be great for diversion only...very tempting. But that's not what I want...is it?


West? Kick me in the butt, ok? LOL

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Registered: 10-18-2003
In reply to: cl_revenoc
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 12:49pm
Diversions can be very satisfying.

Kim

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Registered: 01-05-2005
In reply to: cl_revenoc
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 12:52pm

Hmm, pretty sure these wouldn't be. One has a live in gf, so he'd be sneaking around.


The other is cute as hell and probably good in the sack, but he's young, Mexican, and not something I'd want for more than

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Registered: 05-25-2004
In reply to: cl_revenoc
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 4:40pm
Sigh...Just remember what your pastor said!! The right one is getting ready for you. I actually remembered that post yesterday on my long drive to the beach.
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Registered: 01-05-2005
In reply to: cl_revenoc
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 4:43pm

Really? You thought of that? Cool...


It's a comforting thought when I can wrap my mind around it. Remembering all the growth I've experienced that past few years makes it believable...I wasn't ready back then.

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Registered: 05-25-2004
In reply to: cl_revenoc
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 4:51pm

No settling. The right one could come along when you are in the sack with Mr. Inthemeanwhile.

Patience. Make that list again!!

I am in the patience boat, too.

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Registered: 01-05-2005
In reply to: cl_revenoc
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 4:54pm

*puppy dog eyes* maybe if I made it a nooner I wouldn't miss anything????


LOL, JUST KIDDING!


Thanks Judy

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Registered: 05-25-2004
In reply to: cl_revenoc
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 4:55pm

A nooner would be very cool. That is my favorite time of day - like all day. :-)

But we have to be strong. I know it will pay.

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Registered: 01-05-2005
In reply to: cl_revenoc
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 4:58pm

It's never just a nooner for me anyway, I know that.


I have to have a good amount of tenderness for someone to get naked with them. So, just say NO.


:)

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Registered: 04-08-2003
In reply to: cl_revenoc
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 7:39pm
I believe in having fun while I can. Forget the waiting and waiting and waiting. I had that idea for awhile, until I was diagnosed with cancer and then my life took a whole new turn on the perspective. This is my life and I will live it to the fullest and if that includes sex with a sexy man, no matter FWB, a date, a relationship, or otherwise, then it includes sex. I have heard to many stories of women who have had their fun and somewhere along the line they met the man in their lives. I am with that crowd. I know what I want and I know that I don't want to settle, but I darn well know I won't wait around for the prince to show up at my doorstep, disco, bar, whatever, you guys get my drift. I have my FWB, but I am not interested in him and I don't want to date, but I get what I want and that makes me happy. I'm so GLAD I can separate my emotions verses my needs in that aspect. In anything else, it doesn't gel with me well.
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Registered: 01-05-2005
In reply to: cl_revenoc
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 12:25am

We all have to do what feels right for us.


Hey cat, sorry I was snitty yesterday. I was dealing with some crap at work and everything hit me wrong, I was feeling very defensive.


take care

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