Blown off? Maybe ...

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Blown off? Maybe ...
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Sun, 04-15-2007 - 4:37pm
Batting 1000 lately, lol.

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Registered: 01-25-2007
In reply to: rlch
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 4:50pm
I love the "NEXT",, it reminds me a woman I met, she was talking about that speed dating. She said she wouldnt need the whole 8 minutes, just about 30 seconds would do, and was hoping for a buzzer she could press and say NEXT...
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Registered: 12-27-2006
In reply to: rlch
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 5:41pm
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I can't believe it was 4:15 when you wrote this!!! My Mr. 4:15 story----third date----didn't hear from him until 4:15......almost cancelled, but already had the sitter. Good luck w/whatever happens w/him. My Mr. 4:15 and I are still seeing each other (going on 4 months!!!--things are good!). But, it sounds as though you told him it was off--even though I remember you advised me to try to give my guy another chance. I've learned that he, and a lot of men, just need a little training--they are out of practice or never were trained properly. My guy still needs some guidance, but he seems to be learning, and seems to want to please me.
Good luck, and so glad you axed Mr. Stalker.
Mary
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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: rlch
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 6:03pm

Yeah,

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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: rlch
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 8:38pm

I don't blame you for being frustrated. The only thing I can add is that if it was me I would not send any message - but if called I would either not answer or decline. The only reason I say that is think of how you would feel if something bad happened and then he got that message?

But if there are other things you didn't like you probably are best to listen to your inner voice.

Your next is too cute!

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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: rlch
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 8:57pm

Maybe he misunderstood your original message about "anytime after 7" on sunday?


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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: rlch
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 9:51pm
Nah Allison, I dont think he misunderstood the 7 pm thing. Florence, i LOVE your pic!

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Registered: 10-07-2005
In reply to: rlch
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 10:02pm

If he is THAT busy, he doesn't really have time to date!


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Registered: 03-28-2003
In reply to: rlch
Sun, 04-15-2007 - 11:36pm

That happened to me with this guy i'm "dating" now. After our 2nd date, he asked me when he could see me again. I said "well i'm going home (to my parents) this weekend, but I'll see if ava's grandmother can take her for the night monday night". He said that was fine, but we never made definete plans. so I called him while at my parents on sat. night and he was out with friends so i chatted with him for a minute, then i let him go. I never heard from him sun. at all, so i called him around 9 and left a message, but i never heard back from the bugger until Tuesday night!!!!!! i was SO ready to give up on him. But he apologized (even tho it only takes a minute to friggin pick up a phone or send an email!!! GRRRR) but that's a male for ya.


Any word from him yet? Sigh - men.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: rlch
Mon, 04-16-2007 - 5:52am
Good for you dumping this one and being picky about what you want. His drama would totally turn me off too.
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Registered: 02-08-2006
In reply to: rlch
Tue, 04-17-2007 - 10:37am

I haven't read ahead, but it sounds like you did the right thing. you weren't sure you were into him anyhow, and you're so incredibly busy, there's no need to be wasting precious YOU time waiting around for a dud.

Moody, nodding in approval


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