boy-friend and alone time

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Registered: 01-26-2007
boy-friend and alone time
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Mon, 01-28-2008 - 10:28pm

Hello everyone,


I haven't been on here in forever, I need to get better. Well I am happy to say that I have met an amazing man. We have been dating for two months now, and its been wonderful. We see each other a lot, and best of all he loves and adores my son. But of course I have a problem so last week we got into out first fight, and he said he wanted to be alone and didn't want to talk to me for a day. I was very hurt by that. He just wouldn't talk to me. So fine we got over it. Well today he texted me good morning and then I texted him back saying I didn't get to say good night to you, I was bummed. I always like to say good night. He said he didn't think that we needed to say good night to each other every night. He then said he thinks that we should one day a week not talk to each other all day, he thinks it will be good for each other. I completely disagree. I don't like that at all. I don't know what is going on, and I kind of got mad about that. Am I over reacting, or should we do that? Help ladies.


Sandra

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Tue, 01-29-2008 - 8:57pm

But of course I have a problem so last week we got into out first fight, and he said he wanted to be alone and didn't want to talk to me for a day.


I was just curious if you felt that maybeeee whatever it was that you fought about may in fact be a reason for him to suddenly want space? You never mentioned what it was about, but I think there maybe more of a reason for his sudden interest to have some space. It may have given a reality trigger in him someplace.


Don't know, but it seems the initial cloud he was on, let some air out and now he's realizing the reality of how fast the relationship took off. I definitely would back off some. If he sees you stressing or making any demands, he may split for good. IMO This is definitely a testing the waters no matter for what reason.


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