Broom Hilda strikes again

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Broom Hilda strikes again
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Mon, 03-10-2008 - 5:06pm

Why can't she just go away? Does anyone have any anti-witch spray? Her presence gives me an unbearable rash.


So the good, positive news first! I could not go with him (Blue Eyes)to Vegas to help his daughter move. It was too short of notice for me to pick up and leave. Blue Eyes surprised me by calling his (fully capable twenty something year old)

~Pacific~
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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 3:44am

Thanks for

~Pacific~
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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 3:54am

I think you are right about him liking the attention. It just is too much for me to stomach anymore and so I will stay firm in my opinions and praising him for making clear boundaries and hope he continues to do so.


I too think he should stop taking her calls. I don't know if that will happen but if he continues to make the boundaries then I would think she would ge the point and stop. kind of like a lab rat- when the rewards stop what is the incentive?


And it is so true about the shoe on the other foot. That is exactly what I had in mind to tell him if by chance he wanted to go. the shoe on the other foot would make a fine point- and hopefully I don;t even have to use it :o)


Thank you for your thoughts!


~Pacific~
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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 3:56am

LOL!!!


wow do I ever Wish I had Ruby slippers sometimes! Thanls for being optimistic and positive...I appreciate it whan people remind me to look at all the good!!!


~Pacific~
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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 4:00am

Thanks, girl-


You just vented out what I wanted to say...what's been bottled up inside me. I try to be positive but I still seeth when

~Pacific~
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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 4:03am

EXACTLY!


And here's the sick thing Rebecca- BE

~Pacific~
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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 9:53am

Thanks for thinking of me - I got the results yesterday.

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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 10:40am

Thank goodness the results are all clear!

I am laughing at Sev's joke. He is funny!!

Is it really so bad just to wait and see? I mean if they do return they can just remove them again and then you can decide? Does that take a while?

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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 12:35pm

Ok, adding my two cents....


From what you've described about BE, it is my assumption only that he is VERY non-confrontational and instead of putting himself into drama of her ranting and raving, etc. He rather just keep reiterating that you will come along and hope she eventually "gets" it without having to come out and SAY it.


I would take it very personal and

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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 12:48pm

Great to hear that you are healthy.

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Tue, 03-11-2008 - 12:51pm

OMG, Mark - you sound like SEV!!! LOL!!!